11th Hour of Divorce & Trial: What Else Can I Do?

[Yasu]

June 11

I called him in the summer about advancing my monthly check to me to fix the rental last June. When he was nonresponsive, I left a nasty VM that we were walking off the job. Money was in bank the next morning.

Mid-July

He called me once or twice about me paying some bills for him while he went to Greece. That was a strange series of calls. Each call he really emphasized the date he was leaving for the two week trip.

I told him, that's great! You have time to get this "such and such" paperwork to me from the "XYZ" company! He said no, and quickly changed the day he was leaving. Then I said, well then, you have time to get me at least the "lp's" for the insurance claim, I can get a lot of money for the damages to those." (we had a flood, and many of the LP's got wet, but he still wanted them, and subsequently requested the turntables). Well, after I asked him to drop off the LP's so I could include them in the claim, he said he threw them out. I' sure I made it clear that I could get up to $5000 go those LP's.

So the jist of those convo's was him wanting me to know he was leaving on a particular day - then when cross-examined with a request, turns out he was leaving actually a day earlier.

I called him after he got back from trip, and he said he could only be friends with me. I decided to let go, and go totally, completely dark, and detach.

This is when surveillance got hot and heavy on my trail. I even injured myself severly going after one. I was so angry - I left him an angry VM to stop the surveilance, the neighbors had seen it, and I had been to police. Once I healed, I left town, and stayed the rest of the summer, fall, and winter at the rental supervising the work.

There was a bit of surveillance and hijinncts at the rental, mostly I ignored it. Only made police report when they came on property and messed around.

I recall a last phone call we had have made perhaps before the injuries. Almost has to be. That call would be sometime between August 1 and August 10. It is a call I was very hurt by. I told him how I missed being with him in an intimate way and it had been so very very very long. That I really don't even know how to date or anything. Perhaps I was being somewhat manipulative in all likelihood. His response to me was "just go out and find somebody.". Those were the last words we shared. Thank you for reading. Yas