11th Hour of Divorce & Trial: What Else Can I Do?

[Yasu]

The thing I didn't mention. I have had the gift of time, as we say in DB. Over three years of time, time, plenty.

Now, it feels like all I ever do is WAIT for the other shoe to drop. For instance, right now, at any moment, I could receive a notice that I will be on the trial calandar - which mortifies me.

Now, it could come on e-mail, or it could come to my door registered mail, or it could be hand delivered. It could arrive today, tomorrow, next month, next year, or not at all. Will he carry out the threat? My attorney says it is only a threat until he pays for his share of the trial upfront - which is pricey in our case. If that so happens, he will have to put up mine as well - as it is available to him in OUR business. A trial is at least 15k each. Will he do this rather than giving us our less than fair settlement proposal?

This is why my stress and anxiety has virtual doubled, as well, my doctor has really increased my dosage, and wants to see me twice as often.

I feel so paralyzed. But I have no control over what others do. It is as simple as that. I await your brainstorm lovely Broklynnmom!