I have been watching your thread. We all need to learn things in life. Why not learn about the most important thing in life? I want you to think about some things. You turned down a job that you regretted after the fact. You did get the job and Congratulations on that! Do you think maybe being in the sitch you are in could be the real reason? Scared to make any life changing decisions? What is it that everyone on here talks about? Facing your fears, maybe? Could this all be controlling you as a man? Worried about what she might think? Why let her control anything about you now? Look inside my man and you will start seeing things differently. Why does any of this have to do with OM? Is he really the problem? I look at it like this. He is an old man chasing a young woman. Can you say two MLC’ers acting like teenagers? This has got train wreck hammered in stone all over the whole A. Do you have any idea what two MLC’ers could possibly dream up and tell each other? You are an intelligent man and you need to think about what is most important in life. Do you really think a relationship based on lies and craziness is a great relationship? Let this run its course and remove the most important piece. You!
Don’t let this make you as a man. Step up and do what’s best for you and your D. I have been the man that you are now and when you finally see this in a different prospective, you become the man. She still thinks she wants out, so why not turn it around and drop her lovingly? It helped me detach and detaching yourself from the drama is the only way to get out of this fog. When you love someone set them free. That anger will ease with time and you are the one that needs to let it all out. Hit that gym hard and release those frustrations. You need to take the time and think things through. When you finally take back control of yourself you are going to see things much differently.
You are starting a great journey and soon you are going to be proud of the man you see looking back in the mirror.
Me 44 W 38 M 18 D 18 D 13 Bomb 10/21/2010 Divorced 7/19/2011 Just getting to the 7th inning!
