Originally Posted By: Lost
So I guess that I'm the type of person that would like a roadmap of what I've done wrong so I can work on it.... but I'm not sure if it's even me.


You know the things that are you.

When you look in the mirror you know. Own those things and leave the rest to her.

Keep working at detachment Lost.

It is your best friend right now. Be compassionate, but detached.

You cannot afford to be caught up in the storm your W is going through right now.

You have to be strong for your family and your W right now.

There is another poster Horsewithnoname who is in the same spot. Check his thread out as I will be posting to both of you.

What are you doing for you right now?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am