This is a process. Anger is one of the stages you go through. It has been compared to the stages of accepting death. And I found that to be true.
There was a study I heard about that ranked the LBS tragedy more tragic than losing both your parents in a car crash.
I can see that too. Especially for the spouse who cares the most. The one giving in the relationship which I think generally are people that make their way here.
They desire to save the M.
But one of the first stages is denial.
And you can get stuck there and when you do destructive things can happen.
Search on here for the stages of the LBS.
Anger? Is good. If you don't have you are not moving forward
Remember to be concious to use it as a shield not as a sword.
That is protect yourself with it. Don't react because of it.
I promise you if you keep working and moving forward with your values as your compass
You won't be heading to Bitterville.
Keep stepping forward
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
