It is NOT your fault or responsibility that your W brought you to a town away from the rest of your family causing you to give up your job and then start a relationship with another man.
When you are right, you are right.
I thank you for your time and interest in my sitch. I am at a much better place b/c of you, T^2, MrBond, and all the others here. I am not at the pinacle of enlightenment, but learning.
Truth is... if I pack up and leave today, it would be out of anger, spite, and rage.
I am detaching from those emotions.
After reading so many other stories I feel confident I will be back here venting soon enough, but today I feel good.
