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When the time comes for me to tell H I know about OW I am gonna wait for the next face to face opportunity.


What is your motive for doing this? I know what my motive would be. What is your expectation?

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As far as letting him in on the fact that he can't file in FL, I think I will wait until he threatens to go ahead and file again.


Why do you need to tell him? He's a big boy, he'll find out and if he discovers it on his own he won't be able to blame you for it.

Have you thought about doing NC except for kid emergencies?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss