I *do* feel good that I laid it all out on the table, that way I don't have to wonder 'what if'. I'm not going to bring it up again, and just pray that it planted a seed.... Only time will tell.
I have struggled with wanting to lay everything out on the table recently so I won't wonder "what if". My WAW and I have not had a R talk in 4+ months and I struggle w/ not bringing up per DB'ing rules vs. being too stubborn in wanting her to initiate and vs. sweeping things under the rug (a historic relationship dynamic of ours), etc...
I really don't see a negative in it if you do not pressure and/or pursue and are just letting your S know where you are coming from. They may percieve it as pressure but your continued and consistant actions speak louder than any conversation you have IMO.
I think you handled it great and can't imagine it not planting a seed. Great Job!
