Hugs 31! I feel the same way about flip flopping. My thread is titled "I want to move on" but I haven't... As for OW, that's a tough one. I remember when I confronted H about it he denied it. Not until I called OW and I heard it from her, then he couldn't lie.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017