deployment to divorce 1

[31nheartbroken]

I know it will be hard to talk to him about it I just really want him to know that I know. I absolutely do not expect any apologies and don't even want any explanations. I will even tell him that. I just want him to be forced to think about the magnitude of his poor decision. Really just hoping, once he knows that I know, he will be more likely to start backing away from her. Especially if I were to say something like "I am deciding what to do with this information". Where I am not threatening anything, but make him think I could go to the Navy.

I am totally prepared for him to tell me I can't prove it and I am not gonna show him my evidence he'll just have to decide or think about whether or not I really do have enough evidence and if it's worth testing me.

Gonna try the legal lady again tomorrow. Just want to get her advice on letting the cat out of the bag first, whether or not it will impact the use of the info for alimony purposes I don't think it will but I wanna make sure before I tell him.

As far as letting him in on the fact that he can't file in FL, I think I will wait until he threatens to go ahead and file again. He has given me an ultimatum telling me that I have until the 2nd week in March to put stuff on paper or he's filing anyway. I guess when that time comes I will tell him he can't do it in FL. That's gonna make him mad when he finds out he has to wait until next Jan to file for D.

What are the hours at the preschool? My D4 goes to preschool here in town from 9am to 12pm, so unless I can get my girlfriend to help out, a full time job is hard. Looking to start in June for sure, when the kids are out of school.