deployment to divorce 1

[purgatory]

So sorry you're having a down day it looks like you've posted a ton today...

IF you feel the need to confront him about the OW (and I totally get that) I think what you plan to say sounds fine- as long as you don't engage him when he gets defensive or even tries to turn it around on you for 'snooping' or saying that you made him feel the need to go find someone else. As long as you can maintain your cool- then it should be safe to talk to him.

But if there's a chance that you'll get angry and try to keep the conversation going hoping that you'll get an apology or an expression of guilt- don't tell him.

I'm sure you're frustrated about not hearing back from the legal people- they never seem to run on our timeline.

If you need a job, I've got an opening in my preschool! It's on Centerville, near Great Bridge.... Only about 10 minutes from the NC border...just a thought