And the hits just keep on coming!!!

I am now totally taken back as to how my "wife" is thinking?

Since earlier she called me about our daughter not being well, its only a minor tummy bug, but she was telling me how she was, then we got on about us again, how we are going to best friends, and be totally honest with each other, this is all from her, major shift in her attitude to me.

She wants to be able to do what she feels she needs to do, she is on a journey to be happier as a person, but wants me as her best friend.

Then she tells me that she is thinking about going on holiday with our kids, and maybe I could go as well, if we are getting on??

I mention what OM would think, and its sort of brushed aside?

Then we are talking about how much we chat, how would he feel if he knew how much we talk, she accepts he would not like it, but its brushed under the carpet!
I told her that we both know whats going on, she calls me about the kids, but really they are just used as an excuse for us to talk to each other, she just agreed with me!

I know she is not giving no promises, but is telling me to continue being how I have been lately and who knows?

This is the first time she has told me since we split up, that there was a possibility of us working this out, still not sure how its happened, but its also hard not to get carried away by it and start to push.

She even said that when she goes to the birthday party with OM, she might realise what she actually wants and come home to me and wanting to work on us!!!! WTF!!!!

I just feel that this is a major turning point in "us", there are no promises being made, but its being heavily insinuated that there is a chance, this is the first time in 17-18 months that this has ever been said, I have felt it from her, but she is actually telling me, maybe, lets just see, lets not fight anymore, and maybe we can sort this out.

Major turning point, just hope I don't mess it up

1 question is, should I go a little dark, give her some space now, respect her wishes, or just continue what I'm doing, always being available??

I just don't want to mess up any chance I may or may not have?

Thanks