Glad to see you're alive and well! I've read somewhere that childhood issues can play a big role in MLC's.
Makes sense and considering her trauma at at early age I'm not suprised. It's like she lived in a self protective shell for ever and it finally erupted. Now she has to figure out all the answers at once, answers that you and I figured out for ourselves as we lived our lives. It's sad for me to think I have been married to someone who never really knew herself, and that means I never really knew her either.
I applaud you for taking the time to focus on yourself. I read a wise person's comment on someone's thread that the WAS is giving the LBS a gift, the gift of time.
[color:#CC0000]I think Mach posted that comment[/color].
You have "received" this gift well. I wish I could say the same for me. But because you are doing so well focusing on yourself, it gives me inspiration and motivation to do the same!
I think we all prop each other up where needed. Some days I help someone, somedays they help me.
I really think you have a good chance that your H will return to earth. Just keep calm as best you can, and vent her or anywhere but to him! I'm realizing that no matter how much time this takes, whatever we think we can handle, it will take longer than that for our spouses to figure themselves out and realize the love of their life is right their with them already.
