1. We have been waiting on some tax related papers to come in the mail. Should I call H to tell him they are here or just wait for him to ask about them?
I'm gonna think I should wait!! I've only had about 2 or 3 initiations on my end!!
2. When the time comes for me to tell H I know about OW I am gonna wait for the next face to face opportunity. Not gonna scream, yell, cry or degrade. Just planning to say in a very matter of fact and calm way "I know about (name of OW), I know you were seeing her in A, and I know it's fraternization". when he argues or lies and says it's not true I'm just gonna say "I have all of the proof I need and I have known about it for a few weeks now"
Should I also tell him that I am deciding what to do with this information?
Me31 H33 M11 T15 S10, D4 H deploys 01/11 H R&R two weeks 10/11 ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11 homecoming 1/12 pos D 1/13
