GOOD GIRL! Proud of you. You didn't screw up. Do you see how he reacted? He felt emotion (and NOT the wayward spouse anger) and he thanked you for telling him. This is the kind of thing I did when J and I were separated. The more time that went by with me obviously moving on from him (yet flirting with him and chatting with him, making sure we were both laughing and remembering the good times), the more he realized that whatever he thought he wanted when he left wasn't what he actually wanted. He wanted me back.

Of course nobody can predict what will happen, but I really think your H NEEDS to feel that you're not pining for him anymore. He won't take strides to come back if he knows he could have you in an instant. JMO.

M & H 25
T 9
D 7
S 4
Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me.
Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out
2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other.
3-4-12 H moved back in.
3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done