A couple of new emails from wife today about finances and taxes. I swear, I've had warmer exchanges with a bill collector.
So hear we are just over three months post-bomb. She is still as cold as day one. How in the h#ll did those of you past month six last so long? Totally losing my patience with this..
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
A couple of new emails from wife today about finances and taxes. I swear, I've had warmer exchanges with a bill collector.
So hear we are just over three months post-bomb. She is still as cold as day one. How in the h#ll did those of you past month six last so long? Totally losing my patience with this..
I here ya Mnky, 3 months and a week for me and same boat, cold as ice! Doubting I even want to make it much longer right now...6 months+ seems like a pipe dream!
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
Mnky I am going on almost 8 months. I can add on top of the 8 months the previous 2 years where she became distant. People tell me that that is a drop in the bucket. So you wait until you say no more. But no more of what? That is my question.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Wow, that's not gonna happen in my case. When I graduate from my training if we aren't piecing I'm gonna bail. I will at least know that I gave it my all at that point. I guess that will be a year or so into this madness. For my own sanity I cannot take much more. You guys are better than me.
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
Grmpy and Rick...you know you won't get any sympathy from me just yet....
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J....If you are willing to put a timeline of affairs of the heart, you might as well give up now...
Anyone can do the "better"
Takes a special breed to get through the "worse"
maybe, feeling like that lately. Hard being sober for the first time in 25 years, in the shape of my life and nobody to share it all with partner wise. At least something good happened out of this! Don't really have a timeline, but i'll need to see progress which I get little of now.
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!
