Thank 2tp. I can always count on you to point me in the right direction.
Honestly, I'm not sure I WANT to know what my H is really thinking at this point. (I'm a coward, I know!)
I haven’t been practicing DBing principles effectively that long, and have been encouraged NOT to bring up R talk (or him moving out). My H is sure to see this as R talk.
I know at some point I have ask him what he's doing/thinking, but not sure if now is the right time or not.
