Im already divorced and will be a year in September. i am currently dating a real good girl and haven't spoken or had any contact with my ex wife in months. Out of the blue she emails me yesterday and starts talking she tells me that she is still scared to talk to me but has seen a change even though she is scared to talk to me cause she thinks i will go back to being mean to her. She told me she has just started dating a singer in a rock band lol completely different from me being im a clean cut law enforcement officer. I say well maybe u can find happiness and he will be good to her and the kids and left it at that. she responds this doesn't mean we cant be friends and civil to each other. i say sure we can be friends and left it at that and haven't contacted her since. for some reason i really could care less that she is dating someone. Just weird she contacted me out of the blue. Women are def. different.
