Denial....its not just a river in Egypt...

[mishka422]

If saving your M would require you to lose yourself, then no...let it go. If you believe you can hold on to the hard fought changes you have made for yourself while rebuilding your M, then by all means fight. That doesn't mean that you are going to be overt about it. Maintain the road you have been taking. Give him his space to figure out what he is doing. He could very well turn around and realize what he gave up. Of course, he may not and you would have to know that you are ok with that if that happens.

You will have to go with you gut and see where it leads you.