Wow, I really appreciate all y'all's replies and concerns!
I'm sorry for being absent for so long. My parents have been visiting from Malaysia, my starting a new job at John Muir Medical and a few other things have kept me from spending extended periods of time at the computer (which is a good thing, IMO).
When this news about my wife and her intentions occurred, one of the first things I did was contact my L and paralegal team about this.
That said, these few weeks talking about it with more people, i.e. family, parents, close friends, praying - has given me a new light on things. So there are a couple of things I want/hope to do now:
- I will strongly consider moving IF and only IF my wife is willing to go to a 50-50 share of our son (right now it's 70-30 in her favor), AND in writing, of course. If she refuses, I'll invoke the right to keep our son in the state.
- Find out more about the ins-and-outs of divorce law in SC. I've been reading up on it online, but have inquired from my legal team if they might have more appropriate insight/knowledge.
Labug/25 - to answer your question, my wife is going into family practice with an emphasis in OB-GYN.
Your prayers and thoughts are helping, even if it's not where I want things to be, but my soul and heart have strengthened...thanks y'all! My better self is benefiting me and our son, no doubt.
