Indecision and the affair continues (part 3)

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I talked to a lawyer early on. Most of our assets are real estate or in a separate account of mine. I'm ok....but, I have a bonus payable this month that I would like to keep.

H and I make similar money and I can see his account online. It isn't out of control. H is pretty cheap and OW is rich.

I do appreciate the concern though...