Thanks for the note. My W is moving out on Thursday but I am remarkably at peace right now. Might not be so peaceful when I'm all alone this weekend. But I did regress a bit, with too much discussion the past few days about why we were where we are, examining things too much. Throughout though, I have remained calm. Moving out was, to me, simply seemed inevitable. My wife is stubborn and once she says something, she does it. I hope that I can best practice the principles of DB during this separation. My W has said he needs space. That's what I intend to give her. So where I look for advice now is from anyone who has thoughts on "DB best practices" during actual separations. My sincere thanks.
