WAW told me she doesn't want to be married pt3

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Today I got another proverbial kick to the groin. I got a call regarding our taxes. It seems that my w and I will be donating to the IRS this year. When I went on payroll my wife and I never thought about reducing her deductions on her paycheck. So because of this we now owe money to the IRS. We were planning on using our refund to cover the roof repair assessment we were given for our building. Now we have to come up with that as well. Oh happy days.
The only good thing is that a friend used me to refi his house and I am getting a check from that which I was going to use to pay bills down. Guess that money is going to IRS or the roof repair since we both agreed to pay half of it.
I now have to inform my W about this. Do I do it before she goes away on a long weekend or wait till she gets back. Either way somehow I feel like she is going to look at me like the bad guy in this.
This week I was going to email her and see if she wanted to go to one of the two shows I have tickets for in April. Wonder how that will go.
Oh we also have to figure out daycamp for the kids and pay that plus we have to do a deposit for daycare next year for my daughter.

Where can I give up my adult card and become a kid again.
Every time things start to go my way something happens. I am trying to figure out who out there or what higher power is using me as a play toy.

Just don't understand why bad things happen to good people.