"but she repeatedly deny this I'm very intently attempting to keep my self obsessed with her having an A." Whoops that should say - I'm intently attempting NOT to keep obsessing about her having an A. Another thing that has me worried is that she has been hanging with her Mom a lot who just a year ago seperated from her second husband (and since her family tends to follow each other's tails I immediately was fearful for my marriage a year ago when I heard about the separation - perhaps I set my self up by being so anxious). I realize that I can't stop her from having an A or getting bad advice from her Mom...what I need to focus on is GAL and somehow keeping my anger, fear, and sadness in check (mindfullness meditation helps but it is so hard to do right now).
