Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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See her today at 3. H sent me a text and wants to talk $$ at 2. HA! I will record it as per my Pat's suggestion.

Therapist today, love her to pieces, said that most women benefit from the waiting that DB allows us, if only in the GAL aspect and the disconnect/detach time that we have while still being a full-time stay at home wife and mom. She has some crazy pilot stories too. Good grief! It is rampant here. Absolutely rampant.

She also suggested I was NOT codependent and merely dealt with a controlling bully who was gone half the time and that it looked a little like oodependency but the goals were good...detach, GAL, etc so that I would not be drawn into his madness.

Read her all the crazy texts and the sacrifice comments, and the matter of principle, etc, and she was howling. So, I had some laughter today! That is definitely good. If nothing else, this makes for great fodder for the book I am writing. Can't decide whether to go full on drama or memoir. Been researching the pieces out of self publishing on Kindle. I could NEVER even dream this stuff up that has happened to me. He actually said "I will not discuss my personal life with you" AFTER he sexted ME thinking I was HER!!!!!! Really?

Going to prepare my thoughts for 2:00 phone call. Upbeat, calm, etc.

Thinking of going to an Alanon meeting tonight at 8. S16 has hockey practice though and he still does not drive...but has test later this week!