We spent a great weekend as a family. He initiated all the outings and we did great. Got along great, etc etc. Problem is I'm not interested in him. Weird, I know.

Yesterday on our way to the mall he told me how he wants to get more tattoos. Aside from the eagle on his back that the wingspan goes from one shoulder to the other, he wants our kids baby portraits on each shoulder. AND he was considering getting one on his chest. TALK ABOUT ACTING LIKE A TEENAGER DURING THIS TIME!!

In the 5 yrs we were together he NEVER mentioned a tattoo!?!?!?

After that I noticed other things he did that bothered me. I feel like a prude but I'm not attracted to this side of him. How do I look past it when this is all I see? Maybe it's a good thing? I will focus less on him n mr on me...


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017