WOW! That is quite a backpedal but I totally understand what set you off. That is quite ridiculous. He's 'sacrificing'? Really? Oh good grief!
I'm so sorry he is flaunting all of this in your kid's faces. That is truly sick! He definitely has major issues and needs therapy in a bad way but with his obvious narciscism he will not get it. Sad.
It's very good that you have a full week of GAL activities scheduled. Keeping yourself busy is imperative.
I am, in no way, an advocate of D, however, I think you are going to need to do something legally pretty quick to save your family assets. He will spend every penny on his new lifestyle and leave you and your kids high and dry at some point without a court order.
I'm sure there is a way to freeze the assets and protect them without actually filing but I don't know what that might be. Get to a L ASAP. Did you say you have an appt. with Linda?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!