I think it's not the wife part, it's the grown-up part she doesn't like. She wants to be a teenager but just can't quite swing that without the help of others.
It's good that she finally has the opportunity to grow up. That would be great for the kids.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss