He is just one confused man. Would you really want to be with him?
My ex told me he will always love me. Yet he was nasty as hell to me and lived with OW from the beginning. He did NOTHING as far as getting a divorce and was horrible in mediation (my lawyer said he has never seen worse). He paid no bills. Yet - if I had said "let's have sex" - he'd have jumped into bed in a nano second. Because it was always his fantasty to have 2 women - even if they weren't together. He did this for a while before I knew about OW. I ended up with a STD (fortunately curable). Nice huh?
My question is simple - Is this a man you would actually want to be with?
You are lucky he is paying the bills. Mine wouldn't contribute a dime to me or the 3 kids without a court order and even then - it was tough to get anything out of him. yet he sports a new BMW and is taking fancy vacations.
Sorry - this was not supposed to be about me. I just found so many things in what you wrote - typical of MLC guys. Let him spin. If he is with OW - leave him be.
