Not sure what to think.... The STBX was over to visit and take out the Girls on Saturday. When they got back he kind of hung around for a little. He asked if he could have something hanging in the hallway to take to his new home with his GF. It was pretty much his anyways, so I said take it.
While he's following me around he starts telling me how he still cares about me, how he still "loves" me. When I looked at him Like he was crazy he said "why else would I still be taking care of everything" (He is still paying all the bills.) I have lost about 50 pounds in the last several Months, he told me how great I am looking and even implied he would like to have sex with me. WTH ! Then he asks if I have had sex yet, he knows I am not in a relationship. That was too much, I acted like I didn't hear that and walked away. End of conversation !!
Just very strange. I don't know what to think. He said all of that. But then through in how the divorce will be final July 13th...that's the day I was served papers and had to sign them. We have done no work on the divorce. I guess after 2 years it becomes final.
Anyways what would you make about all those comments, the I still care, I still love you. The sex talk ? Is he just trying to butter me up, keep me on his good side ? Is he having second thoughts ? Or is he just one confused man ? I sure know I am now, I don't know what to think after this last conversation.
Thanks, Shelby.
Me:43 H:43 T:20 YRS M:15 YRS Bomb: 6/9/08 Bomb#2 7/6/10 Served with papers at work 7/13/10 DD:14, DD:11
