Thanks MaMaMo As far as a Lawyer, I didnt have one in the divorce and if I was going to go that far to get a Lawyer, I wouldnt have contacted him to try to settle this out of court. Yes they have ask me NOT to contact them and I dont unless something like this comes up. I guess to be honest, I see alot of divorced couples that get along when it comes to their children and I dont understand if I have moved on and he has remarried why he is still angry and hates me so. My father has been really sick and an aunt that my son adored and I worry that if something happens to either one of them, my ex wont be decent enough to take a message to pass along to my son. THIS is the ONLY reason I would want to contact ex. For something like this. Other than that, I have no desire. I wish him well. I DO however miss my son terribly. I figure after three years he should have moved on from the anger. I DONT call them or bother them. BUT they may come a time that I need to due to family. I dont want it to be awkard. We were together over 20 years, alot of history. Plus the upside would be that my son gets to see his mom and dad civil to one another and maybe just maybe he wont be hesitate to contact me. I am just being honest here.
