Does anyone else feel that their spouse is hot and cold (or more like cooler)? Sometimes its day to day, sometimes moment to moment. Our MC says he feels there was "score" keeping going on in our marriage. I'm trying not to react to this hot and cool by staying upbeat, but it is unnerving. I wonder if its a test on H's part, because in the past I would have reacted or put a wall up. I'm not even sure if he knows he does it. He has said he knowns he "wears different hats" for different parts/people in his life. This might just be part of that. It's something I think that has always been part of us, but I'm really aware of it now. I will say that yesterday was he was a little cooler to me than usual, but then said today he hadn't felt well. I didn't bring up my feelings/observations so I did appreciate him giving an explanation on his own.
Me-36 H-37 D11 S8 S6 M9 T19 ILYNILWY 11/10 discover EA 02/11 discover EA is really PA/H moved out 03/11 H wants to go to counselling,piecing 12/11 Find out still OW(plural), I'm officially done/detached 04/12
