Thanks, ces. yes, I think I know what I have to do. That is pretty recent, really. I wish I had a better handle on this long ago and it didn't get this far.

Patience for the W. Yes.

I want my kids back. I want my kids to have their dad back. Waiting is hard.

- All for the kids -
Me:34, W:35
M:7, T:13
S6, D3 + my D15 from previous marriage
July 2011 "I think I need a separation"
W filed D September
Currently living apart - she has the house, I rent a room