1) I took up guitar lessons, am serious and systematic about working out at the gym - doing things I've avoided for years (like doing sit-ups), and look better than I have in years.
2) I'm strategically choosing a female friend to take dance lessons with (a personal interest that W refused to pursue with me).
3) I also plan to take horse-riding lessons. This is a passion of W's, and if we end up together, it'd be wise for me to be familiar. I loved horses as a kid and teen, but have had zero contact since.
4) More time with male friends. Let that go completely during this M after 2 best friends moved away.
All in all, not just working all the time: All work and no play makes FL a dull boy.
