WGH, Hang in there re surviving the D process and focusing on ur R with your S5. The rest is out of ur hands for now.
I can relate regarding the intrusive XH on one's sitch. Have had a really manipulative, needy one in mine, still calls W for every health scare, etc... On my part, I let it get to me too much and didn't stay the bigger man - made me look weak and jealous in her eyes. Do what you can to stay focused on what's best for her and keep portraying urself as strong.
My motto for this year?: You can't keep a good man down!
