I get it, 2, I really do. That's why I said I'm in such a weird place. I think most people here are in your shoes, and the advice is usually all about doing 180's and getting them back. I'm struggling really hard to even want to go back.
I agree, Sandi might be able to help. I read a lot of my own thoughts when I went through her first year of posts. I'm not dealing with the OM like she did, but certainly the lack of desire for my H in ANY manner. It's so good of her to spend time here still, when her sitch has reconciled so well and she could be off and running.
Would you mind just adding a little meat to some of the points you made in your response to my Saturday events? I really am looking for alternatives to being interrogating, passive aggressive, antagonistic, provocative, itching for an altercation, shaming, sarcastic and patronizing. LOL! What a list! Maybe just pretend like the interaction was between you and me (not H and W) and what I should have done instead. Is that possible?
