I love the pimple analogy! You have to ignore OW, then look your best and go about your business. Be happy that your H is on your couch and not out of the house. I wish my H could have just slept on the couch for a year vs leaving.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13