"Point is, I'm don't want a big response from H. I don't really even want any response from him right now, I just want to stop doing things that are interpreted as being offensive, by him or anyone.
Phase one, baby steps."
OK, baby steps...
You know, you need to play it cool. Do one thing very subtly and let it play out. Then wait awhile and do something else.
I really wish Sandi would drop by because she is going to be able to help you in ways that I can't.
Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to provide my perspective on things, I'm just not sure if my perspective is always the best for the WAW. After all I'm struggling through my own fun at the moment and I'm the LBS.
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
