WHG: And Alice goes down the rabbit hole...

[workinghardguy]

@Gabby... yes, I know we're both co-dependent, in fact it's one of the reasons I'm reading Co-Dependent No More right now. I'm a fixer and enjoy fixing and she enjoys being fixed... a match made in heaven.

It's funny you should mention the moving back in scenario. It's something both my IC and my mom have challenged me on. I'm not lying, it would be hard, but I don't believe I would allow her to move back at this point, not without conditions and a plan. There would have to be conditions which include IC for her and MC for us. And we would need to start over and work towards co-habitation again. I know it sounds fine on paper... would I be able to execute? I think so. As hard as this is, I don't want to just rush back together should it come to that only to do this waltz again. If nothing else the sanity and health of the kids would drive me. I might be ok with the revolving door thing, but doing that to them isn't acceptable.

@2TP... yes, I remember that. I've actually had that front in my mind since you posted it. Even today when I got the pissy text from her I thought of it.