I liked your examples. I love doing RAK's. I went to the dollar store once and bought a bag of dollar umbrellas, then drove down the road and handed them out to people waiting at bus stops in the rain. It was so fun! But it was also completely non-commital. No one that received an umbrella was going to think it was an invitation for sex. (extreme, I know.) Point is, I'm don't want a big response from H. I don't really even want any response from him right now, I just want to stop doing things that are interpreted as being offensive, by him or anyone.
