That's right Vero. It's true that ignorance is bliss. If we find out things via spying, we are sort of playing god. That omniscience can be a big weight on our shoulders if we find out about our spouses and op. It's best to stay graceful and work on yourself...but sometimes it's so tempting go pick up their phone when they're not watching and search for text from om, or ow.
Best advice, and of course I don't always practice it myself--focus on yourself and don't spy or pry or cling or beg or threaten or try to reason...just be patient and wait and watch.
I was driving home today and saw some guy walking up the street. This was the second time I've seen him, and all I can do is call him the hip-hop walker. That's basically what he was doing, listening to what had to be hip-hop or rap, and was basically dancing as he walked. It was the funniest thing I saw all day.
I saw him close to my wife's office so I sent her a text and asked her if she saw the hip-hop walker. She hasn't responded back yet.
"Things are never bad; it's the way you think about them." -Epictetus
