Ah, he has periodic limb movements. I have those. Not much to do about them really unless they are disturbing his own sleep. Does he act sleep deprived?

In any case, you might want to buy a memory foam mattress or a memory foam mattress topper (high density at least 4" thick). Overstock has them at a decent price. You may find that it dampens his movements enough that you aren't disturbed. Plus, they're *great*.

BTW, FWIW, this stuff about requiring bible citations or some other formal justification for what H wants in an M should be jettisoned immediately. What is important is what makes a good M to him. Period. Now, you may or may not want to try to accommodate his wishes, but he certainly should NOT have to justify them.


Best,
Oldtimer