When H forwards me a link that seems to completely contradict his actions, but claims he believes it, how do I respond? I'll be honest and say that in this case, I probably was condescending. (What would the corresponding feeling? Shock? Disbelief? Confusion?) The article he sent me was the equivalent of someone handing me a magazine article about the benefits of being a vegetarian, while cutting into their 3-lb. New York strip on the plate next to a 2-lb. lobster tail, while telling me it represents everything they believe.