I have read most of your posts and I am also recently separated (1 week) and it has been the worst week of my life!!! I have not contacted him...only will email when he emails me. It feels like forever since I last saw him. He works nights, so even when we were together the week before he left, I did not spend the night in the same bedroom!!!
I did make some initial posts http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...321#Post2224321 about our current situation. Like you stated in one of your posts, you don't really understand what happened. I don't either. My husband recently wrote a letter (that he gave to his doctor about his feelings) and he said he has a great wife and that he just has no feelings left for me. I was devastated but I believe that you must work hard for a marriage to withstand all obstacles.
Thank you for sharing your story and your strength. Please keep us posted and I wish that you and your wife reunite soon!
M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!) EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12 H introduces OW to his fam: June H moves ALL stuff out: July