This is tricky. I think you definitely need to complement him for going. Can you mention some mundane custody issue and then say oh and D is so happy you did the prom thing. It was so great of you....

I think the key is to admit to the D before you pat him on his back.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13