You gotta do what you gotta do do.

I think I've lost a friendship because I wasn't doing what she thought I should do with my marriage. I go too much unsolicited advice.

Your post sounds good. Keep working on you and let H worry about H.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss