Isn't is possible that we *don't* know everything and by re-discovereing each other, we can fall in love all over again?
A former coworker said something a couple of years ago that I didn't quite understand then, but it makes so much sense now.
She said that every few years her and her H re-discover each other.
They have been together about the same amount of time as my H and I, maybe even a bit longer. Granted they don't have any kids yet, so their marriage hasn't undergone that kind of test yet.
But what she said makes so much sense now. Re-discovering each other every few years is like falling in love all over again. You learn new things about each other, remember why you fell in love with them in the first place, and make sure that you don't get wrapped up too much with other stuff that would make you "forget" all about the SO.
