Thank you for your insight. I have bought the book and have begun reading it. I have not contacted him...only respond to his contacts, but it is soooo hard! I just can't understand after 8 years how this can happen when I didn't think anything this major was going on.

Any other words of wisdom out there?


M: 27 H: 28 T: 8 yrs M: 6 yrs
Sep: 2/18/12 (I have no feelings for you!)
EA/PA Uncovered: 2/26/12
H introduces OW to his fam: June
H moves ALL stuff out: July

I'm living my truth without your lies..