In my opinion....TMI...
Instead of:"Me- No. I will give you the pictures but you stopped having the right to know everything when you started keeping secrets."

Maybe just:
"Me- No. I will give you the pictures and whatever else you need off it, do you have a flash drive handy?."

End of story...No blame, accusation, reference to R issues...just the facts ma'am...

I would spend a lot of time with S tonite and give her space...


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