ItGal activities are a house warming party, painting my daughters bedroom and making some soap. W is at her dads b-day party with OM providing she found a sitter. I was very tempted to succumb to her demands and watch the kids.......it's a big test for me to enforce my boundaries and not allow myself to be a doormat. She has been spewing garbage at me via text ever since I stood my ground. I have validated when appropriate and ignored her otherwise. It's been quite a day.